Three Magazine
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7th December 2019
What Your Quarter Life Crisis Is Trying to Tell You. •
Disillusionment. That’s the one word that comes to mind when I consider this chapter of my life. And a feeling of isolation – one that I’ve never experienced on such an intense level before. This was my language to describe something for which I had no frame of reference, until the other day when I was bingeing TED Talks on self-love, loneliness and coping with the monotony of life (it was a particularly gloomy day, I’ll admit) - and evidently I had searched all the right key words to lead me to the term that seems to encompass all of the above. It struck me like a bolt of enlightenment, if you will. This thing I was facing was, in fact, a thing. My misery had company. Other people my age were having the same struggle. They call it the ‘quarter-life crisis’ – a period in your mid- to late 20s that marks the onset of adulthood, and brings you crashing down to a desolate earth.